Can Women 40 Plus Have Fun Dating?

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Question: Can women who are forty and over have fun dating? Yes, you can. But unfortunately, many do not. As a mother more than 40 years old, single with three children that I am very aware of this fact. You see, many women 40 and over talk to me about the dating experiences they have (or have not!).

Can Women 40 Plus Have Fun Dating?

Question: Can women who are forty and over have fun dating? Yes, you can. But unfortunately, many do not. As a mother more than 40 years old, single with three children that I am very aware of this fact. Many women 40 and more talk to me about the dating experiences they have (or have not!).

I admit: Dating can be difficult. However, it need not be. In fact, I really learned how to date. It is true. I reached a point where I realized I needed a little help - no professional help from a therapist (although I'm not against that) - but, well, training.

But I could not find that there is no formal training for women 40 and over on how to date. Therefore, the alternative was for me to read so many books about dating as I could and talk to women. Oh, and of course the continuous events, no matter how disappointed or disillusioned that I have.

So, needless to say, I have much experience of being "that is in the trenches!" Here are some things I know I will let you and all women 40 and over have funny quotes:

1. Safety First: Be responsible for your own safety. Therefore, until she meets a man, his meeting in the place of the date and make sure it is a public place. Also, be sure that you park in a safe place zoals a garage that has a wizard.

2. Realize that chivalry is not dead. See that your date open doors for you, accept your congratulations with a warm "thank you", and if you want to pay for the night, let him. Good people like to do nice things for women they like. So the man who is on a date with you treat them well.

3. Talk less and listen more. Take the pressure off yourself and stop thinking that you have to keep the conversation going. Let your date to ask questions and hear what he has to say about himself. You'll be more relaxed and even discover things about your date.

4l. Go with the flow. If you are enjoying the company of your partner, and then let the last date as long - or as short - as it will last. It is often an unconscious thing we do something zoals saying, "Oh, it's getting late ..." Do not be to end the date because doing so may lose the opportunity to learn something interesting or funny about your date.

5. Trust your instincts. Now, I know that I suggested above to avoid being to end a date. However, there are exceptions to this. If you're on a date with a man with whom you feel uncomfortable - for any reason - and then trust your gut and end date. Make sure you finish mannermouse date in a polite and discreet. Doing so has more to do with your safety than anything else. Do not reject a man's face - you never know how a person can react to rejection. Just end the date at an appropriate time (zoals when the meal is over), and say you have to go home because you have a long day tomorrow.

Of course, appointments can not be reduced to a series of tips. There's more to dating! However, consider these suggestions as 5 small steps you can take to enjoy dating more. At least, you are at least increases the likelihood that you will have more fun in your life.

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Dating, Dating Advice, Dating After Divorce, Dating Online, Dating Profile, Dating Rules

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I am from India done my MBA in Pune I am really passionate about writing and an freelancer too.I am married and have two kids.

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